MARRIAGE - 2025 version

Tadi pas lagi throwback ke 2012, ketemu postingan ini trus merasa pengen diupdate lagi setelah 13 tahun berlalu.Tanpa ngeliat tahunnya dan dari jawaban-jawaban yang ada, gw inget emotional state gw waktu. Hopeful with heart and flower. Lol. Dan belakangan gw bertanya-tanya, will i ever feel that way again? 

1. How old are you?
(o)ld 19 count..
(n)ew 21 years old-count..

2025 - 34 and thriving

2. Are you single?
o. :) :) :)
n. No!
2025 - yes :)

3. At what age do you think you'll get married?
o. 24-27
n. 22 years old. ;p
2025 - mungkin engga akan di kehidupan sekarang, mungkin di umur 50, God knows.

4. Do you think you'll marry the person you are with now?
o. why not? only God knows.
n. Yes, i do.. *blushing*

2025 - who?

5. If not, who do you want to marry?
o. Matsumoto Jun!! ahahahahhaa
n. Matsumoto Jun still a good option. :)

2025 - Matsumoto Jun uda kawin :'( Nicolas Saputra belom sih. 

6. Who will be your bridesmaid & bestman?
o. my little hubby niece, Vanessa
n. one of my best buddy, Syeren Felisia

2025 - Bianca

7. Do you want a garden/beach or traditional wedding?
o. garden
n. beach. (see how times can change people's mind..)

2025 - church. ga usah resepsi. duitnya buat honeymoon ke (di bawah)

8. Where do you plan to go on honeymoon?
o. Euro trip! :) Wina, Praha, Paris. :)
n. Maldives

2025 - Tromso?

9. How many guests do you think you'll invite?
o. no one. :p
n. let's count it..

1. Mom
2. Dad
3. Robert
4. Sonia
5. Lemot
6. Acil
   
7. Ce Regi
8. Syeren
9. Nova
10. anyone..?

2025 - can i invite no one? lol Males banget sama drama perundangan kawinan ini.

10. Will that include your exes?
o. definetely no
n. idk

2025 - NO

11. How many layers of cake do you want?
o. can i have 3 layer ceke made by chocolate??
n. 2 okay, 3 super! :9

2025 - Ga ada cake juga gapapa. Uda tua, harus ngurangin gula. Undangannya juga nanti di atas 30 semua kok.

12. When do you want to get married, morning or evening?
o. nite. ^^
n. morning. how can we see the sea at night?

2025 - Siang. Biar ga usah bangun subuh banget buat mekap. Pengennya malem, tapi gerejanya kan cuma bisa pagi atau siang.

13. Name the song/tune you'd like to play at your wedding.
o. fly me to the moon - Frank Sinatra
n. When I Fall in Love - Nat King Cole

2025 - Love will stay - GAC

14. Do you prefer fine dining or just normal spoon & fork & knife?
o. yang bisa dmakan dmana saja, kapan saja
n. anything okay.
2025 - Nasi kotak Ny. Hendrawan. Terserah yang makan mau pake tangan atau sendok garpu, tapi di dalamnya uda ada sendok plastik kalo mau langsung dimakan.

15. Champagne or red wine?
o. red wine
n. red wine

2025 - kayaknya ga perlu wine sih. Air putih aja kali. Sehat dan murah. 

16. Honeymoon right after the wedding or days after the wedding?
o. how about before? hahahahahhaa.. trgantung mood
n. right after the wedding. He's kinda very busy..

2025 - RIGHT AFTER THE WEDDING!! Ga sabar banget nunggu buat ke Tromso. Kalo perlu malemnya langsung ke bandara!

17. Money or household items?
o. money!!!
n. money. no arque

2025 - Issshh. ini kayaknya sampai kuda beranak pun, tetep bakal pilih duit ga sih?

18. How many kids would you like to have?
o. 4.. :)
n. 4

2025 - can i have one baby girl, please? :')

19. Will you record your honeymoon in DVD/CD?
o. nope, i'll make some pic
n. yes, why not?

2025 - sekarang uda jaman cloud drive sih, tapi iya, rasanya mau punya rekaman acara pernikahan yang cuma 2 jam itu.

20. Whose wedding plan would you like to know next?
o. anyone who tagged by me
n. anyone?

2025 - emang siapa temen gw yang masih main blog tapi belom kawin dan bisa ditag? Lol

See? FUN! Terlihat sekali ya dari jawabannya, how much i changed over the years. Dari hopelessly romantic girl yang naif, kemudian ke hopeful girl yang merasa masa depannya penuh bunga, dan sekarang di practical woman yang ga mau ribet dan sering menggunakan majas sarkasme. 

Pernah ada masanya aku suka banget sama 90s Jazz. When i Fall in Love dari Nat King Cole, dan Fly Me To The Moon dari Frank Sinatra masih ada di daftar lagu favorit sepanjang masa. Tapi semua lagu itu kan tentang saat kita jatuh cinta bukan? Tentang manisnya. Dan kayaknya, yang aku butuhin sekarang bukan cuma cinta yang semanis madu, tapi juga cinta yang bisa bertahan. So, Love Will Stay adalah pilihan yang tepat. Walaupun, karena cuma mau nikah di gereja, kayaknya sih ga akan kesampaian ya muterin lagu ini di pernikahan. Hahaha.

"Our love will stay, will make it through.."

won't it?

Liebster Awards aka. Newbie Awards!

The very first award buat Sleepy. :3 Thanks to mami Pina yang uda ngasih bahan postingan disaat blog ini hidup segan mati pun tak mau. hohoho.

Sebenernya award ini dan aturan-aturan, dan pertanyaannya dalam bahasa Inggris. Tapi gw terlalu males buat nulis dalam bahasa Inggris, karena agak maksa otak gw buat bekerja lebih berat, jadi jawabannya dalam bahasa ibu pertiwi kita saja ya. :D

The rules:
1. Thank the person who nominated you, and post a link to their blog on your blog.
2. Display the award on your blog
3. Answer 11 questions which provided to yo by the person who nominated you
4. provide 11 random facts about yourself
5. nominate 5-11 blogs that you feel deserve the award (who has less than 200 followers)
6. Create a new list of questions for the blogger to answer
7. list these rules in your post ( you can copy and paste from here)
8. Inform the people/blogs that you nominated that they have been nominated for the Liebster award and provide a link for them to your post so that they can learn about it (because they might not have ever heard of it)

Q & A

1. What's your go-to outfit?

    I'm out of fashion banget! Gw uda sangat puas kalo boleh pake kaos belel dan clana pendek/legging kemana-mana, plus sendal jepit. Hahaha. Tapi belakangan si pacar ngoceh-ngoceh,  jadi mesti lebih mikir deh kalo mau jalan pake apa. Dan biasanya sih, ujung-ujungnya tetep sendal jepit, legging, dan loose tee yang engga belel :').

2. You have only 10 minutes to do your makeup. What will you use?

10 minutes? Yang bener aja. bisa telat kekantor gw kalo dandan doang 10 menit. 10 menit mah uda harus termasuk skincare! Kalo buat dandan kilat gini (less than 10 minutes), biasa ini yang dipake:: Acnes UV tint, Caring loose powder, Sariayu eye brow powder, Maybelline pencil eyeliner, blusher, Baby Lips, dan kalo masih sempet Sariayu Lipstick.

3. Do you prefer classic bag or trendy bag? Why?

Backpack itu termasuk classic atau trendy sih? Atau jangan-jangan engga termasuk bag???

Kalo backpack kan enak, bebannya terbagi secara merata di kedua pundak, sehingga tidak terjadi lendutan permanen di salah satu bagian bahu pada kemudian hari.

4. Who is your fashion icon?

Siapa ya? Evita Nuh mungkin. Gw ga banyak tau sih fashion icon. hahaha

5. What do you look for when you're buying shoes?

1. Butuh-kah? 2. Nyaman-kah? 3. mahal-kah?

Gw beli sepatu paling setaon 2x doang kali. Terakhir beli malah kayaknya setaon lalu. itu juga sepatu New Balance Running Shoes, gara-gara sepatu yg lama bikin sakit.

6. What is your signature fragrance?

Random! Tapi yang sekarang seri dipake sih DKNY Be Delicious & TBS White Musk.

7. Do you have phobia?

kayaknya engga.

8. What do you think about flower crown?

Cantik dan flowery. Pengen punya satu. tapi terlalu pelit buat beli. Dan terlalu males buat bikin sendiri.

9. Your ultimate favorite place to shop?

Dept.store, supermarket, sama drugstore semacam Watson & Guardian. Sampe si Ipin bilang, kalo jalan sama gw ga repot, cukup ajak ke Gramedia sama Watson, trus dikasih makan, udah seneng kok.

10. If you can only follow one person on Twitter or Instagram, who would that be?

IG: Instagram it self.

Twitter: Ada Diskon. LOL!

11. What is your holy grail foundation/bb cream?

Ga suka BB Cream. Dan sedikiiit banget nyobain foundation. haha. Sejauh ini favorit gw, Bourjois Healthy Mix Serum yang rencananya pengen gw repurchase suatu hari nanti.

Ya ampun, gw bener-bener orang yang sangat tidak fashionable. Hahaha. Pertanyaannya semua bikin gw mati gaya. :'D

Dan ini 11 pertanyaan selanjutnya. Dariku, untukmu.

1. Buku terbaik yang pernah kamu baca?
2. Kalo buku di pertanyaan no.1 dicetak ulang dengan versi ilustrasi, apa yang akan kamu lakukan?
3. Apa kamu pernah hanyut dibawa Korean Waves?
4. Menurut kamu, who's the hottest man alive?
5. Apa kamu berencana menikah sebelum umur 27 tahun?
6. Your dream wedding, tell me please?
7. 5 Lagu terbaik dan ga akan ada matinya buat kamu?
8. Tempat yang pengen banget kamu kunjungin?
9. If you can turn back the time, what did you want at your 17th birthday party?
10. Outdoor activities. Yay or Nay?
11. Tell me your wildest dream. :)

Dan kamu-kamu-kamu-kamu-kamu yang dibawah sini, let me know ur answer ya. :D

1. Rinnah from Short Stories in Life
2. Vani from Vani Sagita
3. Erna from Rosemary Queen
4. Gabrielle from Pretty Much
5. Andita from Random Share of Bliss

HAVE a HAPPY DAY!

What Makes Me Happy

I've been tagged by Vina from 4 years ago!!
Maap loh mami, baru ngeh sekarang. hahahaha

aturan main: Tag dan di-link balik ke yang nge-tag. Isinya 6 hal yang bikin seneng, trus kalo uda tag 6 orang lain lagi.

What makes me happy?

1. BOOK

I'm a book lovers! Dan sejak bisa nyari duit sendiri, ketemu online shop yang jual buku lebih murah dari Gramedia, dan menyadari kalo Gramedia sering kasih diskon, tumpukan buku-buku di rumah jadi menumpuk dengan luar biasa berantakan. Blom lagi masih ada sejumlah buku-buku yang belom terbaca dan masih disegel. hahaha. Dan masih berencana membeli beberapa buku yang ada di wishlist ini. :D

2. MUSIC

Coba bayangin hidup tanpa musik? Sepi bin garing! Kalo kata Ipin nih, seandainya kemampuan gw ngehafal  tugas yang dikasih sama dia sama baiknya sama kemampuan g ngehafal lirik lagu. HAH! Gara-gara ce Regi, sejak kelas 6 SD gw suka ngumpulin lirik lagu, dicatat ulang di dalem binder note, dan sekarang punya 2 binder tebel yang isinya lirik lagu. Tapi sejak masuk kuliah dan semakin kenal internet, jadi uda ga pernah lagi nyalin lirik gitu. Malesss. :p

3. Animal

I love them! Semakin fluffy semakin suka! :D Sama suka baby animal juga. Kenapa ye kalo masih kecil gitu binatang pada lucu-lucu, contohnya monyet gw dirumah. Sekarang sih masih lucu-lucunya nih, liat aja beberapa tahun lagi, bisa dicakar-cakar gw. T.T Eh, tapi kalo anjing gitu lucu ah sepanjang idupnya, macan juga lucu, beruang juga, musang juga. :3 Mau punya, tapi males ngerawatnyaa. hehe

4.  Travelling

Kalo yg ini baru sadar suka sejak mulai kuliah. Asik banget lagi, jalan-jalan modal kantong kronis ( ya kalo bisa modal kantong tebel lebih seneng sih), ke tempet yang asing, ngeliat hal-hal baru. Dan sasejujurnya, sampai sekarang pun gw ga nyesel dulu kabur ke Ujung Kulon. It' was a goooodddd time! Pengen deh kesana lagi. :) Kalo ada tempet yang ga bikin bosen dikunjungin, mungkin Bali kali ya. Disana tuh berasanya suasana liburan sepanjang taon. :D 3 before the day! :D

5. Wasting time with my best people

Biarpun cuma buat hal-hal ga guna dan kurang jelas, tapi g sangat menikmati waktu-waktu bareng temen dan pacar. Ya pas ga ada masalah apa-apalah. Rasanya seneng banget kalo bisa ngobrol ngalor-ngidul sama temen-temen deket, atau main gulat-gulatan sama si temen uang lain, atau cuma diem-dieman sambil nonton dvd bareng pacar. Pokoknya semua hal yang ga ada hubungan sama kerjaan dan duit itu asik kalo dijalanin sama mereka. :)

6. Boss Ganteng

Hahahaha. Yes, he is completely my love for this 15 months. Ada kok waktu-waktu nyeblinnya. Pas dy lagi kumat ngambeknya. Tapi sejak tahun ini ya, he's such a sweetheart :*. And yes, this thing betwen us is going stronger more than before. Senng deh. Padahal dulu sempet kuatir gara-gara age gap. Thanks GOD, everything's okay. :D

Tag ini mau aku hibahin ke beberapa temen blogger lain. :D

1. Sabrina from My Little Big World

2. Vani from Vani Sagita

3. (another) Cella from Delicious to C

4. Rinnah from Short Stories in Life

5. Gabrielle from Food Always Matter

6.Andita from Random Share of Bliss

kalo uda diisi, mau dong di-toel balik. Mau ngepoin baca juga. haha

Am i innocent?

Taken from Lili's blog
 
 Start with 100% and subtract 1% for everything that you've done. Then repost as your __% innocence.

01. Smoked
02. Drank alcohol
03. Cried when someone died
04. Been drunk
05. Had sex
06. Been to a concert
07. Gotten/given a hand job
08. Been verbally/sexually harassed
09. Verbally/sexually harassed somebody

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 94% (WOW! I'm already substract 6%.. it's a big number, don't you think so?)

11. Felt someone up and/or been felt up.
12. Laughed so hard something came out of your nose
13. Cheated on a boyfriend/girlfriend before.
14. Been cheated on by a boyfriend/girlfriend.
15. Been to prom/ Ball
16. Cried at school.
17. Gotten lost in a Wal-Mart or a department store.
18. Went streaking.
19. Given or received a lap dance.
20. Had someone of the opposite sex in your room.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 89%

21. Had someone of the opposite sex sleep over.
22. Slept over at someone of the opposite sex's house.
23. Kissed a stranger.
24. Hugged a stranger.
25. Went scuba diving.
26. Driven a car.
27. Gotten an x-ray
28. Hit by a car.
29. Had a party.
30. Done drugs.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 85%

31. Played strip poker/darts/pool.
32. Got paid to strip for someone.
33. Run away from home.
34. Broken a bone.
35. Eaten sushi.
36. Bought porn.
37. Watched porn.
38. Made porn.
39. Made beans.
40. Been in love.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 81%

41. French kissed.
42. Laughed so hard you cried.
43. Cried yourself to sleep.
44. Laughed yourself to sleep.
45. Stabbed yourself.
46. Shot a gun.
47. Trash talked someone and then acted like their best friend the next day.
48. Been online for 9 consecutive hours.
49. Watched TV for 9 consecutive hours.
50. Watched an animal die.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 79%

51. Watched a person die.
52. Kissed somewhere with at least 1 person present.
53. Pranked somebody.
54. Put somebody in the hospital.
55. Snuck into someone's room and/or your own room after being out.
56. Made spicy beans.
57. Dressed punk.
58. Dressed Goth.
59. Dressed preppy .
60. Been to a motocross race.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 79% (hei! this percentage isn't change. hehehe)

61. Avoided somebody.
62. Been stalked.
63. Stalked someone.
64. Met a celebrity.
65. Played an instrument.
66. Ridden a horse.
67. Cut yourself.
68. Bungee jumped.
69. Ding dong ditched somebody.
70. Been to a wild party.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR 77%

71. Been caught stealing something.
72. Kicked/punched a guy in the balls.
73. Stolen a boyfriend/girlfriend from a friend.
74. Gone out with your friend's crush.
75. Got arrested.
76. Been pregnant.
77. Babysat.
78. Been to another country.
79. Started your house on fire.
80. Had an encounter with a ghost.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 75%

81. Donated your hair to cancer patients.
82. Been asked out by someone that you never thought you'd be asked out by.
83. Cried over a member of the opposite sex.
84. Had a boyfriend/girlfriend for over 2 months.
85. Sat on your butt all day.
86. Ate a whole carton of ice cream all by yourself.
87. Had a job.
88. Gotten cut from a sports team.
89. Been called a whore.
90. Danced like a whore.

PERCENTAGE SO FAR: 72%

91. Been mistaken for a celebrity.
92. Been in a car accident.
93. Been told you have beautiful eyes.
94. Been told you have beautiful hair.
95. Raped somebody.
96. Danced in the rain
97. Been rejected
98. Left a restaurant without paying.
99. Punched someone/slapped someone in the face.

 

TOTAL 66%

I guess i'm quiet innocent. ^^

married

i'm copying this from my FB. this is my post 2 years ago, and it's time to re-update. ;)

1. How old are you?
(o)ld 19 count..
(n)ew 21 years old-count..

2. Are you single?
o. :) :) :)
n. No!

3. At what age do you think you'll get married?
o. 24-27
n. 22 years old. ;p

4. Do you think you'll marry the person you are with now?
o. why not? only God knows.
n. Yes, i do.. *blushing*

5. If not, who do you want to marry?
o. Matsumoto Jun!! ahahahahhaa
n. Matsumoto Jun still a good option. :)

6. Who will be your bridesmaid & bestman?
o. my little hubby niece, Vanessa
n. one of my best buddy, Syeren Felisia

7. Do you want a garden/beach or traditional wedding?
o. garden
n. beach. (see how times can change people's mind..)

8. Where do you plan to go on honeymoon?
o. Euro trip! :) Wina, Praha, Paris. :)
n. Maldives

9. How many guests do you think you'll invite?
o. no one. :p
n. let's count it..

1. Mom
2. Dad
3. Robert
4. Sonia
5. Lemot
6. Acil
   
7. Ce Regi
8. Syeren
9. Nova
10. anyone..?
    

10. Will that include your exes?
o. definetely no
n. idk

11. How many layers of cake do you want?
o. can i have 3 layer ceke made by chocolate??
n. 2 okay, 3 super! :9

12. When do you want to get married, morning or evening?
o. nite. ^^
n. morning. how can we see the sea at night?

13. Name the song/tune you'd like to play at your wedding.
o. fly me to the moon - Frank Sinatra
n. When I Fall in Love - Nat King Cole

14. Do you prefer fine dining or just normal spoon & fork & knife?
o. yang bisa dmakan dmana saja, kapan saja
n. anything okay.

15. Champagne or red wine?
o. red wine
n. red wine

16. Honeymoon right after the wedding or days after the wedding?
o. how about before? hahahahahhaa.. trgantung mood
n. right after the wedding. He's kinda very busy..

17. Money or household items?
o. money!!!
n. money. no arque

18. How many kids would you like to have?
o. 4.. :)
n. 4

19. Will you record your honeymoon in DVD/CD?
o. nope, i'll make some pic
n. yes, why not?

20. Whose wedding plan would you like to know next?
o. anyone who tagged by me
n. anyone?

Another 30 days challenge!

I've got another challenge!. Hahahhaha
I will do this one after i finish my last chalenge. it hasn't finish yet. :P
Here they are!

another quiz

1. What is more difficult: looking into someones eyes when telling how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they tell you how they feel?

the first one

2. Think of the last time you were angry. Why were you angry?

did i ever get angry guys..? :p

3. If you could do anything OR wish anything, what would it be?

i wish i could be more arrogant, more taft, and of course, SKINNER!

4. You can have one of the following two things: trust or love.

love. There's no love without trust. :p

5. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?

noooooo

6. What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

i don't love them back

7. Romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them?

a second ago. ;p

8. If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have “no regrets” what would you change?

idk. i regret a lot of thing yet thanksfull too..

9. When and how was the last time you told someone how you REALLY feel?

forgot

10. How old were you when you had your first relationship?

14 or 15

11. Who was the last person to call you baby/babe?

i'll let no one to call me baby or babe. (emang g BABI)

12. Anyone crushing on you?

who knows?

13. What is your relationship status?

enggaged? :p

14. Has anyone ever sang to you

yes. :D

15. Has anyone ever given you roses?

no

16. Who do you text the most?

my best boy

17. First person to text today?

my best boy

18. What is your favorite color?

GREEN

19. What color are your eyes?

black? sometimes green. ahahhaha

20. What is a compliment you receive often?

aneh.. T.T

21. Who was the last person to say they loved you?

my best boy of course. hahahahha

22. Do you secretly like someone?

nowaday, i don't think it's a secret..:p

23. Why did your last relationship end?

he's a jerk and a asshole

24. Which do you prefer, to eat or sleep?

sleep of course!

25. Do you look more like your mom or your dad

dad..?

26. Can you do splits?

almost!

27. Are you flexible?

no..

28. What did you do on New Years Eve?

watching tv with Orlando Bloom and Jhonny Deep, hahhaa

29. Can you speak any other language than English?

Indonesian

30. How many hours of sleep did you get last night?

10-11 hours.

31. Do you wear your seatbelt in the car?

yes

32. Are you scared of flying?

i'm pretty sure i'll love to fly

33. Do you like funny people or serious people?

funny

34. What do you have planned for tonight?

sleeping

35. Are you happy right now?

not really

36. If you could have one thing right now what would it be?

him

37. Who makes you happiest right now?

to sleep as soon as possible

38. What were you doing at midnight last night?

slept

39. Are you left handed?

i'm righty one

40. do you want to get married & have children one day?

who'll say no?

quiz. :)

Are you in a relationship?
yes

How long have you been in a relationship with this person?
5 months and 23 days

Are you completely happy with the person you’re with?
sometimes yes and sometimes no, but i don't think i can be much more happy without him (now)

are you in love?
definetely YES, i'm still falling, nd much deeper tham before. :p

Do your friends like your partner?
not really. :'(

Does anyone around you NOT support the relationship?
idk. hopes there's no one

Have your parents met your partner?
my mom yes, daddy haven't

Are you happier single or in a relationship?
another DEFINETELY in a relationship. :p

Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
no, i'm the annoying one sometimes. hahahaha

Have you and your partner ever broken up and gotten back together?
no

Do you want to get married?
is there any woman who don't want to get married?

Would you ever leave the person you are with?
not at the time i'm still falling

Do you regret any of your past relationships?
yes

Would you ever date your best male/female friend?
not for this time. :)

Would you believe your ex if she/he said they love you?
i'll said "FUCK YOU"

Have u ever flirted with a friends crush?
yes.. hehehehe

Ever liked someone else’s boyfriend or girlfriend?
yes. :')

Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
depends on

What is the biggest age gap you have dated?
2 years, 4 months and 22 days

Have you dated people who were not good to you?
absolutely not.